Her husband was deported to Mexico. Unwilling to remain apart, she left the US to join him.

Published: Monday, October 13, 2025 at 5:38 pm

Immigrant Chooses Self-Deportation to Reunite with Husband

A woman, after living in the United States for over two decades, made the difficult decision to leave the country and join her deported husband in Mexico. The woman, a 54-year-old grandmother, had her husband arrested and deported by federal immigration agents. Unwilling to remain separated, she chose to leave her children and grandchildren behind to be with him.

This case highlights a trend of undocumented immigrants choosing to self-deport amid intensified efforts by the government to crack down on illegal immigration. The government launched a program encouraging undocumented immigrants to return to their native countries, offering incentives such as a $1,000 exit bonus, a flight home, and exemption from fines.

While tens of thousands of individuals have utilized the government's program, it is unclear how many have chosen to leave quietly, without using the official channels. The woman in this story was unaware of the program and opted to leave on her own terms. She cited a desire to be with her husband as the primary reason for her departure, rather than fear of detention.

An immigration attorney noted that some clients have also opted for self-deportation, driven by a desire to avoid detention and leave with dignity. The attorney also mentioned that some individuals are leaving without utilizing the government's program.

The woman's decision to leave was met with both sadness and understanding from her community. She was given a farewell gathering by her church group, providing a sense of closure that many immigrant families do not experience. She packed her belongings, including family photos and items belonging to her husband, and traveled to Mexico.

She has since reunited with her husband in his hometown. They plan to eventually move to a city near the border so their children can visit.

BNN's Perspective: The situation highlights the complex human cost of immigration policies. While the government's efforts to manage immigration are understandable, the emotional toll on families separated by deportation is undeniable. Finding a balance between enforcing immigration laws and considering the humanitarian impact on families is crucial.

Keywords: self-deportation, immigration, deportation, undocumented immigrants, Mexico, family separation, CBP Home app, voluntary departure, exit bonus, immigration policy

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